Relationships and love are wonderful, joyful, and quite possibly the most exhilarating thing us humans will ever experience. It can also be a huge pain. Relationships and marriage especially can take some real hard work as they start to go stale after some time. Anyone who’s been married before is probably nodding their heads in agreement right now and also rolling their eyes whenever they hear their friends talking about their requirements for a future partner. So what’s the key to making love last the test of time? What popular beliefs are leading us astray and what can we do to have a great relationship? We’ve compiled a list of 5 tips to bring a little spice back into your relationship.
- Ask your partner thought-provoking and revealing questions. I love questions from the NY Times viral article, “36 questions to fall in love with anyone” which has you ask your partner deeper and deeper questions as you go along.
- Do some sort of activity or sport together which will get you out of the habit of dullness and can be fun. Maybe go to the gym and go in the hot tub or sauna together. This will get your clothes off and get you both thinking about sex.
- Talk about sex, intimacy, relationships, etc. You can take the love language quiz together and see each other’s love languages. This is revealing, fun, and will get you on the path of being closer.
- Get them to laugh. Even if you have to attend a comedy show together, which can lead to inside jokes later, it is a great way to build up a connection.
- Appreciation – Don’t forget to say thank you even if it’s for something small. Men love to make their women happy and they really enjoy hearing it from her.
With these tips in mind, you can increase the intimacy you share with your partner in your relationship. If you’re looking for more valuable relationship advice and other dating tips, you can hear from the experts on our blog.
And if you haven’t already, make sure to apply for a membership with Luma Luxury Matchmaking. We’ll get to know your dating preferences and choose an eligible elite from our wide pool of successful singles to introduce to you. Sign up today.