New York's TOP MATCHMAKER SERVICE

Dating in New York is as diverse and dynamic as the state itself. From the fast pace of Manhattan to the coastal sophistication of the Hamptons and the quiet elegance of upstate cities, singles here are driven, discerning, and ready for meaningful connection. At LUMA, we take a personal, intentional approach to matchmaking, introducing professionals and executives to partners who share their values, goals, and vision for lasting love.

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What Sets LUMA's Matchmaking Apart

New York’s dating culture reflects ambition and individuality. Whether navigating the social energy of New York City, the coastal calm of Long Island, or the artistic nature of Poughkeepsie, singles here are seeking depth, not distraction. With over 15 years of experience and an 89% success rate, LUMA’s Matchmakers combine insight, intuition, and local understanding to create introductions that feel natural, effortless, and built to last

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Quality Matches with an 89% Success Rate

Our Matchmakers curate introductions designed for connection. Your first date might include dinner at Peak with Priceless overlooking Hudson Yards, an evening exploring the AKG Art Museum in Buffalo, or a weekend wine tasting in the Hamptons. For upstate clients, it could be cocktails at The Noble Cellar in Syracuse or dinner at Yono’s in Albany. Each experience is selected to fit your lifestyle and set the stage for genuine chemistry.

LUMA thoughtfully designs every introduction, focusing on quality to ensure matches align with your values and aspirations.

Prescreened Matches (~50 Interviews per Client!)

Our process is intentional and results-driven. Each client benefits from approximately 50 in-depth interviews conducted by their Matchmaker, ensuring each introduction reflects your personality, goals, and lifestyle. By the time your first meeting takes place, we’ve already managed every detail — from venue to scheduling — so you can focus on building a real connection.

250+ Years of Combined Experience

With more than 250 years of combined experience, LUMA’s Matchmakers bring understanding, intuition, and professionalism to every match. Your New York Matchmaker knows the nuances of dating across the state — from Manhattan’s fast-paced executive world to Long Island’s coastal lifestyle and the quieter communities of upstate New York. Every introduction is guided by care, insight, and discretion, ensuring a seamless and personal experience.

Our New York Matchmaking Process

Intake

Your journey begins with a one-on-one consultation to understand your values, goals, and past experiences.

SEARCH & SCREENING

Face-to-face interviews with your Matchmaker ensure they carefully select each match through a comprehensive evaluation process.

DATE COACHING

Receive personalized tips for making a great impression, with advice tailored to your dating goals and preferences.

SELECTION

Your Matchmaker will conduct about 40 interviews per client to narrow it down to the one who appears to be best suited for you, then we present you with your match’s profile.

DATE PLANNING

Your Matchmaker arranges introductions in some of New York’s most memorable settings — from fine dining at One if by Land, Two if by Sea in Greenwich Village to a waterfront dinner at Prime in Huntington or a scenic walk through Central Park. Upstate clients might enjoy a relaxed evening at The City Beer Hall or a sunset over Canandaigua Lake. Each venue is thoughtfully chosen to foster comfort, conversation, and authentic connection.

FEEDBACK & EVALUTION

Post-date feedback helps refine your matches and ensures your experience aligns with your vision for a lasting relationship.

    
 
 
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   Bethany 
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 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I don’t usually leave reviews, but Gina has been absolutely amazing to work with. From the beginning, she showed a genuine interest and you can tell she truly cares about her clients and is invested in helping them find the right person. She has even answered questions and checked in outside of normal business hours, which says a lot about how dedicated she is.  The men she has introduced  me to have been high-quality, intentional, and very respectful. The whole process with LUMA has also been really easy. The Zoom meetings are convenient, the calendar reminders keep everything organized, and communication has been great throughout. Overall, it’s been a very positive experience, and I’d absolutely recommend working with Gina and LUMA if you’re looking for a more intentional, personalized approach to dating.
  
 
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   Diane Catania 
 20 May 2026
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Over the past year I had a wonderful experience working with Gina from Luma Luxury Dating Service. She was not only professional but also attentive and caring to make my time meaningful. She not only helped me navigate through the process but made herself available to listen and answer my questions. It was a pleasure working with her and I extend the highest compliments to her and Luma.
  
 
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   Javin Nakamura 
 27 February 2026
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. While I did wait for a potential match, LUMA Matchmaking helped me with connecting with another person. And I hope things work out. But overall, I was surprised with their service, they were quicker than expected. It may be different for everyone else, but it was great.
  
 
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 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I'm single from Nigeria looking for true love A true Christian hoping to find one there 😊
  
 
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   Jake Miller 
 16 May 2025
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I highly recommend Luma! These galls have been very helpful in helping get back out into the dating world.
  
 
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 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Very professional!
  
 
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   Morgan Drutchas 
 22 August 2024
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I met my husband through Luma, and I would recommend 100% They listened to where I was at, gave constructive criticism and was with me through the entire process. It was definitely expensive, but I was 200% done with online dating and beyond the age where you organically meet single people. It was worth every penny.
  
 
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   Julie S 
 15 April 2024
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Working with Samantha has been a great experience!  She is insightful, knowledgeable, and cares about getting it right.  The level of investment she puts in with me is impressive and she has helped me tremendously.  Samantha knows relationships and I appreciate the high standards and passion she has for her work.
  
 
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   Michael Blackburn 
 14 March 2024
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. LUMA is a high end first class service. My experience was great from the very start. They provide exceptional communication and follow up with their clients and truly work hard to match the right people together. I would highly recommend their services.
  
 
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   Matthew Blong 
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 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Jaydy was great to work with as a matchmaker, very proactive and helpful. I felt well taken care of by her and her team!

World Class Matchmaking Services Nationwide

LUMA is a premier New York Dating Service designed for professionals, executives, and high-net-worth individuals seeking meaningful, lasting relationships. Our high-touch approach prioritizes discretion, compatibility, and depth, ensuring every introduction feels thoughtful, aligned, and built to last.

Cities we serve in New York

Over 25 years of Experience Matching High-end Singles

April Davis discovered her gift for matchmaking at sixteen, when she introduced two people who went on to marry — a moment that inspired her lifelong calling to help others find love.

That passion evolved into LUMA, a nationally recognized matchmaking firm built on empathy, expertise, and over 250 years of combined experience. We believe in the power of personal connection, taking time to truly know our clients and create introductions that feel intentional and aligned.

Founded to serve busy professionals, executives, and high-net-worth singles, LUMA offers a private, curated alternative to dating apps. Our New York Matchmakers work with clients across New York City, Long Island, and beyond, helping successful individuals meet partners who share their values and lifestyle.

If you’re ready to move beyond dating apps and meet someone who truly complements your life, we can help.

April Davis
Founder & President

Premium Matchmaking
Services in NY

At LUMA, we help successful singles across New York find love that feels intentional, genuine, and lasting. Whether you’re in the fast-paced energy of New York City, enjoying the coastal elegance of the Hamptons, or embracing the relaxed rhythm of upstate living, our Matchmakers use local expertise to introduce you to partners who truly fit your world.

We focus on what really matters — shared values, goals, and connection. Some clients seek partners with similar ambitions or faith, while others prioritize balance, humor, or emotional depth. Whatever defines your ideal match, we tailor every introduction to align with it.

Skip the endless swiping and shallow connections. With LUMA, every introduction is purposeful, connecting you with extraordinary singles across New York who are ready for something real.

FAQs About Matchmaking in New York

How Our Matchmaking Works

How does LUMA's matchmaking process work in NY?

Our matchmaking process begins with a comprehensive consultation to understand your preferences, values, and relationship goals. We then curate potential matches from our exclusive network and arrange introductions when there’s mutual interest, guiding you through each step of the way.

What makes LUMA different from other matchmaking services in New York?

LUMA stands out with our 89% success rate, a focus on high-caliber professionals, a personalized approach, and an extensive network throughout NY. Our matchmakers have over 250 years of combined experience in matching successful singles.

How long does the matchmaking process usually take in NY?

While each client’s journey is unique, most clients meet compatible matches within the first 3 months. The entire process, from initial consultation to finding a committed relationship, typically ranges from 6-12 months depending on what you’re looking for.

Do you work with clients across the entire New York?

Yes, we offer matchmaking across New York, with a strong presence in major metropolitan areas. Our reach spans from coast to coast, so we can find great matches no matter where you live in NY.

What is the age range of your typical clients in NY?

Most of our clients are 30-65 years old. We focus on matching working professionals who have stable careers and are ready for meaningful relationships with like-minded people.

Proven Success To Get Better Dates

“He’s a great guy. I trust you know what you’re doing. Thank you for everything.”Shannon Beador, Real Housewives of Orange County

"I would 100% Recommend LUMA"

There’s nothing better than finding your best friend, the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.Michael and Michelle, Engaged

Take the First Step Toward Love in NY

Take the first step in finding your most ideal partner by completing the form below. After completing the form, you’ll receive an email confirming that you signed up for our dating service. Then, you can schedule the ideal time to chat with one of our accredited matchmakers.

Your New York Matchmaking Team

LUMA’s Matchmakers have a deep understanding of NY’s dating scene. Our experts provide personalized support to help you find the relationship you’ve been searching for. Phone: (844) 822-5862

Connect with Your New York Matchmaker

Ready to start your New York matchmaking journey? Your Matchmaker is here to help with every step of the application.