Professional Matchmakers in New York

LUMA Luxury Matchmaking is an exclusive dating service for elite and professional clientele in New York. Our boutique agency provides customized services to discerning clients who are seeking serious relationships. When you’re ready for a better dating experience and real love, LUMA is the award-winning firm that gets results.

What to Expect from a Matchmaker in New York

Finding love in the Empire State is easier when you work with a Matchmaker. LUMA’s professional Matchmakers take the stress out of dating in New York by doing the hard part for you. We introduce successful and high-profile singles to compatible matches who are also looking for committed, long-term relationships.

At LUMA, how matchmaking services work is that our luxury Matchmakers put you first and foremost. Our personalized services are designed to meet your unique needs and specific goals. We take time to learn your dating history and what you hope for in future relationships.

LUMA Matchmakers support clients through every step of the matching and dating process, from preparing for dates to successfully navigating each stage of a relationship.

Here are some of the difficulties our clients have experienced in the various dating scenes around New York:

  1. The marriage rate in New York is among the lowest in the country and has steadily declined since 2019. New York also has one of the highest rates of residents who have never been married. There are simply fewer people looking to settle down here.
  2. If you live in the Tri-State area, the majority of singles are focused more on their careers than finding life partners. Casual dating and relationships are predominant and fueled by the mindset that modern dating is essentially “comparison shopping.”
  3. The winter weather in New York complicates dating. If your date doesn’t live nearby, you end up having a lot of canceled plans—which can cause the connection to fizzle. Or worse, you waste precious time on first dates that don’t have any spark.
  4. While the Big Apple has a large dating pool. Once you get outside of the Tri-State area the dating pool gets smaller. It’s harder to find compatible singles, and when you do meet somebody they might not share your relationship goals or personal values.

If you’re frustrated with dating apps, tired of going out and not meeting the right people, or have had too many bad dates, our matchmaking experts can help. We’ll remove the obstacles that elite singles face when dating in New York and make quality introductions that have high potential to become lifelong partners.

We help our clients find partners that share their interests, values, and dreams. Looking for somebody who enjoys the nightlife in New York City or Buffalo? Maybe you’re hoping to find someone in Albany who loves live music or someone who loves to summer in the Hamptons. LUMA’s talented Matchmakers can find you the perfect partner to share your passions and build a future with.

Areas We Serve:

LUMA has high-end Matchmakers across the state of New York. Look for us in a city near you.

Why Work with a Top LUMA Matchmaker in New York

When you work with the best Matchmakers in New York, we help you find, meet, and keep a life partner. LUMA’S personalized approach is very thorough; we go beyond simply matching singles with mutual interests to find a perfect match who complements you and your lifestyle.

  • LUMA’s tailored matchmaking system highlights quality over quantity. Our Matchmakers only work with 15-20 clients at a time. We’re able to give you the personalized attention required to make a truly great match, which is why LUMA has an 85% success rate.
  • Working with New York LUMA Matchmakers will secure you a great match faster than an online app or traditional dating methods. All of our candidates are pre-screened, so you can feel confident that your match will have the same relationship goals and values as you.
  • Our Matchmakers are Certified Life Coaches. We’re well-versed in the struggles that today’s singles face. Our clients frequently express a desire to regain confidence in their dating life, to find someone who will be understanding of their partner’s demanding career, or to start a family. We offer a safe space for you to share your dating frustrations and your joys.
  • We want you to have the best chance of enjoying a long-lasting relationship. Our Matchmakers will guide you towards relationship success as you navigate each stage with a new match.

LUMA Matchmakers love to help you plan dating activities guaranteed to be a hit with you and your date. Or, let us do the planning so you can relax and focus on having a wonderful date without the pressure of organizing.

Nature lovers can enjoy pretty much every outdoor activity imaginable in either the Catskills or the Adirondacks. Skiing, hiking, boating, ziplining, or a romantic picnic are just the start. There’s also the stunning Howe Caverns in Schoharie County.

Arts and culture lovers in central New York will love a visit to the Fenimore Art Museum or attending an outdoor opera concert in the summertime at the Glimmerglass Festival.

The Finger Lakes Wine Festival in Watkins Glen and the Great New York State Food & Wine Festival in Clayton are fun activities for wine aficionados.

Catch some live music or root for your favorite team at Madison Square Garden in NYC!

Nationally Recognized Service

We’re proud to deliver the highest level of service to our elite clientele at LUMA.


INC 5000 Fastest Growing Company


Better Business Bureau

Accredited Business

Bold Award Nominee

Bold Award



Chicago innovation awards

Winner 2016

Uptown Association


up and comer award

Matchmaking Services We Provide in New York

The demand for professional matchmaking services has risen among elite and successful singles in New York who want a better way to find love. There are more than 19 million people in the state of New York, and an nearly equal number of men and women. LUMA is confident that we can find your perfect match and provide you with exceptional services throughout your dating journey.

Structured Match Method – An in-depth interview and date coaching take place before we introduce you to your first match. We interview a minimum of 50 pre-screened candidates before we select those with the best potential to meet your needs and preferences. We’ll introduce you by setting up the first date and collect feedback to see what worked or didn’t work. Your Matchmaker will also provide you with feedback.

Confidential Matchmaking – Whether you’re a high-profile person or simply prefer to keep your search for love confidential, you can rest assured that our matchmaking services are private and exclusive to members. Introductions are on a first name basis only; you can share more information with your date when you feel ready.

Personalized Search – LUMA has a database with over 1 million available singles, but we also use personal connections and networks to find your most ideal partner. We only introduce you to quality singles who we feel will make an excellent match based on the information you provide us with.

Date Coaching – Our Matchmakers offer Date Coaching Services, using their training as Life Coaches to help you put your best foot forward in all areas. We’re here to help you feel confident, to look your best, and to guide you toward success in romantic relationships.

What can you expect from LUMA?

Watch our video below to understand the LUMA Match Process.

What Our Clients Are Saying...​

"Imagine my surprise when I met the love of my life through LUMA. Thank you so much for changing my life!"
Jay and Kathi - Perfect partner at LUMA
Jay and Kathi
"I just wanted to say thank you for introducing me to Jason. He's the love of my life and we'll be forever grateful."
Jason and Khrystena - Perfect partner at LUMA.
Jason and Khrystena
"I am very pleased to be working with April and her staff. I cannot imagine dating in any other context."
Kenton and Coleen


Email: info@lumasearch.com

Phone: 1 (844) 822-5862

112 W 34th St. New York, NY 10120

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