Matchmakers in Raleigh, North Carolina

The dating scene in Raleigh can be challenging. Online dating apps skew towards casual relationships, and going out to meet new people is time-consuming and rarely pays off. There is a better way! Let our Matchmakers help you find someone who you truly connect with.

What’s It Like Working with a Matchmaker in Raleigh?

If you’re feeling discouraged with endless swiping on dating apps or struggling to meet new people in the Raleigh dating scene, you’re not alone. 

It can be really hard to stumble upon someone who shares your interests and has the same relationship goals that you have. And for those of us living in Raleigh, there are a few unique challenges including: 

  • Navigating the university influence – With numerous colleges in the area, the dating scene can feel skewed toward a younger demographic, which can be challenging for those looking for more mature relationships.
  • Balancing urban and suburban lifestyles – Raleigh’s mix of urban and suburban areas can create a divide in dating preferences, making it tricky to find someone whose lifestyle aligns with yours.
  • Dealing with the transient population – Raleigh’s status as a rapidly growing city attracts many newcomers, leading to a dating scene where potential partners might not be looking for long-term commitments.

Hiring a Matchmaker eliminates these frustrations and gives you a faster, better way to find your perfect match. Unlike apps and traditional dating methods, a professional Matchmaker offers a personalized approach to meeting quality singles who are also looking for committed relationships. 

Our Matchmakers support you through every step of the matching and dating process. 

Your dates will be hand-selected based on your interests and goals: you’ll only be introduced to singles who we strongly feel could become your life partner. We also help you navigate each stage of your new relationship so you can put your best foot forward and feel confident every step of the way. 

Clients can expect everything from conversation starters and style advice to date planning and feedback to increase your chances of success. 

Some of our favorite date ideas in Raleigh are:

  • Stroll Through Pullen Park: Enjoy a romantic paddle boat ride or a carousel spin in one of the oldest amusement parks in the U.S.
  • Explore the North Carolina Museum of Art: Wander through impressive art collections and beautiful outdoor sculpture gardens.
  • Catch a Show at Red Hat Amphitheater: Experience a live concert under the stars at this popular downtown outdoor venue.
  • Enjoy a Craft Beer Tour: Sample local brews and learn about the brewing process at one of Raleigh’s many craft breweries, such as Raleigh Brewing Company.
  • Visit the North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences: Engage with fascinating exhibits and live animals in this interactive and educational museum.

Why Choose Our Raleigh Matchmakers?

Working with our Matchmakers has significant benefits that you simply can’t get from online dating sites.

  1. High Success Rate: Our customized matchmaking system boasts an 85% success rate, emphasizing quality over quantity by limiting matchmakers to 15-20 clients for personalized attention.
  2. Thorough Selection Process: We use the LUMA Love Method (a 50+ point criteria strategy) to find, interview, and select potential matches for our clients. We only accept singles who we believe are going to be compatible with our clients.
  3. Exclusive Network: With over 50,000 high-caliber singles—including top executives, celebrities, and athletes—our dedicated recruiters ensure a diverse and exclusive database.
  4. Expert Support and Guidance: Our Certified Matchmakers, also relationship and life coaches, have an average of 15 years of industry experience providing one-on-one support for our elite singles. We also offer feedback and guidance throughout your dating journey, acting as your personal guide, advocate, and cheerleader to help build successful, lasting relationships.
  5. Discreet and Confidential: Enjoy privacy and confidentiality throughout the process, with introductions on a first-name basis and all personal information kept strictly confidential.

LUMA’s personalized matchmaking service is available to all established singles in Raleigh. We also work with singles in other North Carolina cities including:

What can you expect from LUMA?

Watch our video below to understand the LUMA Match Process.

What Our Clients Are Saying...​

"Imagine my surprise when I met the love of my life through LUMA. Thank you so much for changing my life!"
Jay and Kathi - Perfect partner at LUMA
Jay and Kathi
"I just wanted to say thank you for introducing me to Jason. He's the love of my life and we'll be forever grateful."
Jason and Khrystena - Perfect partner at LUMA.
Jason and Khrystena
"I am very pleased to be working with April and her staff. I cannot imagine dating in any other context."
Kenton and Coleen

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