Matchmakers in San Diego, California

The dating scene in San Diego can be challenging. Online dating apps skew towards casual relationships, and going out to meet new people is time-consuming and rarely pays off. There is a better way! Let our Matchmakers help you find someone who you truly connect with.

What’s It Like Working with a Matchmaker in San Diego?

If you’re feeling discouraged with endless swiping on dating apps or struggling to meet new people in the San Diego dating scene, you’re not alone. 

It can be really hard to stumble upon someone who shares your interests and has the same relationship goals that you have. And for those of us living in San Diego, there are a few unique challenges including: 

  • Competing with the beach lifestyle – The city’s focus on outdoor activities and beach culture often means dating revolves around casual and laid-back settings, which can make forming deep connections more difficult.
  • Navigating the tourist influx – San Diego’s popularity as a tourist destination leads to frequent encounters with short-term visitors, making it hard to find locals who are genuinely interested in serious dating.
  • Managing the high cost of living – The expensive housing market and overall high cost of living in San Diego can add financial stress to dating, making it harder to plan and enjoy regular outings.

Hiring a Matchmaker eliminates these frustrations and gives you a faster, better way to find your perfect match. Unlike apps and traditional dating methods, a professional Matchmaker offers a personalized approach to meeting quality singles who are also looking for committed relationships. 

Our Matchmakers support you through every step of the matching and dating process. 

Your dates will be hand-selected based on your interests and goals: you’ll only be introduced to singles who we strongly feel could become your life partner. We also help you navigate each stage of your new relationship so you can put your best foot forward and feel confident every step of the way. 

Clients can expect everything from conversation starters and style advice to date planning and feedback to increase your chances of success. 

Some of our favorite date ideas in San Diego are:

  • Visit Balboa Park: Explore the stunning gardens, museums, and historic architecture of this sprawling urban cultural park.
  • Picnic at Coronado Beach: Relax on the pristine sands of this iconic beach with a picnic, and take in views of the Hotel del Coronado.
  • Explore Old Town San Diego: Step back in time and experience the rich history and culture of California’s birthplace with its historic buildings and authentic Mexican cuisine.
  • Take a Harbor Cruise: Enjoy a scenic cruise around San Diego Bay, offering stunning views of the city skyline and the Coronado Bridge.
  • Hike Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve: Take a scenic hike with breathtaking ocean views and explore the unique Torrey Pine trees.

Why Choose Our San Diego Matchmakers?

Working with our Matchmakers has significant benefits that you simply can’t get from online dating sites.

  1. High Success Rate: Our customized matchmaking system boasts an 85% success rate, emphasizing quality over quantity by limiting matchmakers to 15-20 clients for personalized attention.
  2. Thorough Selection Process: We use the LUMA Love Method (a 50+ point criteria strategy) to find, interview, and select potential matches for our clients. We only accept singles who we believe are going to be compatible with our clients.
  3. Exclusive Network: With over 50,000 high-caliber singles—including top executives, celebrities, and athletes—our dedicated recruiters ensure a diverse and exclusive database.
  4. Expert Support and Guidance: Our Certified Matchmakers, also relationship and life coaches, have an average of 15 years of industry experience providing one-on-one support for our elite singles. We also offer feedback and guidance throughout your dating journey, acting as your personal guide, advocate, and cheerleader to help build successful, lasting relationships.
  5. Discreet and Confidential: Enjoy privacy and confidentiality throughout the process, with introductions on a first-name basis and all personal information kept strictly confidential.

LUMA’s personalized matchmaking service is available to all established singles in San Diego. We also work with singles in other California cities including:

What can you expect from LUMA?

Watch our video below to understand the LUMA Match Process.

What Our Clients Are Saying...​

"Imagine my surprise when I met the love of my life through LUMA. Thank you so much for changing my life!"
Jay and Kathi - Perfect partner at LUMA
Jay and Kathi
"I just wanted to say thank you for introducing me to Jason. He's the love of my life and we'll be forever grateful."
Jason and Khrystena - Perfect partner at LUMA.
Jason and Khrystena
"I am very pleased to be working with April and her staff. I cannot imagine dating in any other context."
Kenton and Coleen


Email: info@lumasearch.com

Phone: 1 (844) 822-5862

600 B Street, Suite 300San Diego, CA 92101

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