New York City’s Top Matchmaker Service

Dating in New York City can feel overwhelming with its 8 million residents and fast-paced lifestyle. LUMA skips the swiping and simplifies the process with a personalized approach, connecting busy professionals with genuine matches and real connections.

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What Sets LUMA’s NYC Matchmaking Apart

New York is a city like no other, recently ranked one of the worst for dating. From the hustle and bustle of Manhattan to the charming streets of Brooklyn, NYC offers an exciting array of dating opportunities. LUMA has 15+ years of matchmaking experience and an 85% success rate, making your search for love in New York effortless, personal, and fun.

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Quality Matches with an 85% Success Rate

We’re proud of our 85% success rate, with most clients finding a long-term relationship within their membership. Our expert Matchmakers focus on quality, curating meaningful introductions that align with your goals and values. Whether it’s a first date at the Met or a romantic stroll through Central Park, we help you create memorable experiences.

Prescreened Matches (~50 Interviews per Client!)

We don’t leave anything to chance. Our NYC Matchmakers conduct an average of 50 in-depth interviews per client to find the most compatible matches. So it’s like we’re going on 50 first dates on our client’s behalf to create a pipeline of potential matches. When you meet someone, we’ve already done the legwork to ensure your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals align.

Over 250 Years Of Combined Experience

Our seasoned NYC Matchmakers bring decades of experience to every client relationship. With 250+ combined years in the industry, you can trust that your love life is in capable hands. They understand the best dating strategies in NYC and leverage their expertise to deliver exceptional results.

Michael and Michelle
Michael and Michelle, Engaged

"I would 100% Recommend LUMA"

There’s nothing better than finding your best friend, the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.

Our Matchmaking Process

Finding love in New York City is more than just an introduction—it’s a journey. Our five-step LUMA Love Method ensures you have our full support at every stage:

1

Intake

Your NYC matchmaking journey begins with an in-depth interview with your Matchmaker Dating Coach so they can learn more about your past and hopes for the future.

2

SEARCH & SCREENING

We meticulously search for potential candidates by narrowing the field and personally interviewing your most compatible matches.

3

DATE COACHING

Your Matchmaker provides personalized coaching to help you feel confident and prepared for each date with advice on wardrobe, conversation, and rapport building.

4

SELECTION

Your Matchmaker will conduct about 40 interviews per client to narrow it down to the one who appears to be best suited for you, then we present you with your match’s profile.

5

DATE PLANNING

Matchmakers interview an average of 50 singles for each client and introduce you to carefully selected matches. You can review their profiles to ensure they meet your goals. Introductions are made on a first-name basis for confidentiality. If you’d like, we can plan a fun activity to ease any awkwardness, such as coffee, dinner in SoHo, a Broadway show, or an exclusive black-tie event.

6

FEEDBACK & EVALUTION

After the date, you’ll provide feedback to your Matchmaker so we can ensure you’re both on the same page and refine the process for better matches if needed.

LUMA is a nationally recognized matchmaking service. Take membership on LUMA and find perfect partner.
Shannon Beador, Real Housewives of Orange County

Proven Success To Get Better Dates

“He’s a great guy. I trust you know what you’re doing.

Thank you for everything.”

FAQs About Matchmaking in NYC

Curious about how LUMA’s personalized approach works in the Big Apple? Below are some common questions about top matchmaking services in NYC, designed to help you make the most of your journey to finding love.

Yes! We serve clients nationwide and have helped match couples locally in NYC and the tri-state area, including surrounding areas like the Hamptons, Westchester, and New Jersey.

 

Iconic spots like the Brooklyn Promenade, The High Line, or cozy cafes in Greenwich Village are perfect for first dates. Your Matchmaker is a NYC expert who handles the hard part of planning for a fun and memorable first date.

Absolutely! We offer specialized NYC matchmaking services for LGBTQ singles, focusing on personalized matches within NYC’s vibrant LGBTQ+ communities, such as Hell’s Kitchen, Greenwich Village, East Village Brooklyn, and Queens.

With LUMA, you receive a tailored, hands-on experience from select, professional luxury Matchmakers, unlike the impersonal nature of dating apps.

New York’s fast pace, diversity, and size make dating here exciting and challenging. Over a third of New Yorkers were born outside the United States. LUMA helps you navigate these dynamics to find meaningful connections.

Take the First Step Toward Love

Begin finding your ideal partner by completing the form below. Once submitted, you’ll get a confirmation email and can set up a convenient time to chat with one of our expert matchmakers.

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Your New York City Matchmaking Team

The dedicated specialists behind LUMA’s New York City matchmaking services get the city’s dating scene and are ready to use their expertise to help you find that special someone.

Address

311 West 43rd St,
New York, NY 10036

Phone

(929) 333-5841

Connect with Your NYC Matchmaker

Ready to start your NYC dating journey? Your Matchmaker is here to help with every step of the application.