Oklahoma's TOP MATCHMAKER SERVICE

Dating in Oklahoma blends ambition with authenticity. From the energy of Oklahoma City and Tulsa’s cultural sophistication to the welcoming pace of Norman, singles here value relationships built on mutual respect, shared values, and genuine connection. At LUMA, we take a personal, intentional approach to matchmaking — introducing professionals and executives to partners who align with their goals, lifestyle, and vision for lasting love.

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What Sets LUMA's Matchmaking Apart

Oklahoma’s dating culture is both grounded and driven. Whether you’re building your career in Oklahoma City, exploring Tulsa’s art and music scene, or enjoying life in a close-knit community, singles here seek relationships rooted in sincerity and long-term compatibility. With over 15 years of experience and an 89% success rate, LUMA’s Matchmakers combine intuition, empathy, and local expertise to create introductions that feel natural, effortless, and real.

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Quality Matches with an 89% Success Rate

Our Matchmakers curate introductions that foster authentic chemistry. Your first date might include dinner at The Polo Grill in Tulsa, a sunset stroll through the Myriad Botanical Gardens in Oklahoma City, or wine and conversation at Cafe 501 in Edmond. Each experience is chosen to reflect your lifestyle and create a setting where genuine connection can unfold.

LUMA thoughtfully designs every introduction, focusing on quality to ensure matches align with your values and aspirations.

Prescreened Matches (~50 Interviews per Client!)

Our process is designed to make dating feel effortless and intentional. Each client benefits from approximately 50 in-depth interviews conducted by their Matchmaker, allowing us to identify introductions that align with your personality, goals, and lifestyle. By the time your first meeting takes place, every detail — from scheduling to reservations — has been handled, so you can focus entirely on connection.

250+ Years of Combined Experience

LUMA’s Matchmakers bring expertise, understanding, and care to every match with more than 250 years of combined experience. Your Oklahoma Matchmaker understands the unique mix of ambition and authenticity that defines the state’s dating scene — from Oklahoma City’s professional drive to Tulsa’s refined charm. Every introduction is carefully curated to ensure it aligns with your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals.

Our Oklahoma Matchmaking Process

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Intake

Your journey begins with a one-on-one consultation to understand your values, goals, and past experiences.

2

SEARCH & SCREENING

Face-to-face interviews with your Matchmaker ensure they carefully select each match through a comprehensive evaluation process.

3

DATE COACHING

Receive personalized tips for making a great impression, with advice tailored to your dating goals and preferences.

4

SELECTION

Your Matchmaker will conduct about 40 interviews per client to narrow it down to the one who appears to be best suited for you, then we present you with your match’s profile.

5

DATE PLANNING

Your Matchmaker arranges introductions in Oklahoma’s most memorable settings — from fine dining at Vast in Oklahoma City to cocktails at Juniper in Tulsa or enjoying a show at Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Each experience is selected to encourage conversation, comfort, and natural connection.

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FEEDBACK & EVALUTION

Post-date feedback helps refine your matches and ensures your experience aligns with your vision for a lasting relationship.

World Class Matchmaking Services Nationwide

LUMA is an acclaimed Oklahoma matchmaking firm helping accomplished singles find meaningful, lasting relationships. Our luxury matchmaking services cater to professionals, executives, and high-net-worth individuals who value privacy, authenticity, and quality. With a team of expert Matchmakers across the United States and abroad, we provide a personalized, refined experience tailored to your lifestyle and long-term goals.

Cities we serve in Oklahoma

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Over 25 years of Experience Matching High-end Singles

April Davis discovered her passion for matchmaking at sixteen, after introducing two people who would later marry — sparking a lifelong mission to help others find love.

That early success became LUMA, a nationally recognized matchmaking firm built on empathy, experience, and over 250 years of combined expertise. Our Matchmakers take a human-first approach, creating introductions rooted in compatibility, shared values, and genuine understanding.

Founded to serve professionals, executives, and high-net-worth singles, LUMA offers a private, refined alternative to dating apps. Our Oklahoma Matchmakers work with clients across Oklahoma City, Tulsa, Norman, and beyond — connecting successful singles who are ready for meaningful, lasting relationships.

If you’re ready to move beyond dating apps and meet someone who truly complements your life, we can help.

April Davis
Founder & President

Premium Matchmaking
Services in OK

At LUMA, we help Oklahoma singles find love that feels intentional, genuine, and enduring. Whether you’re thriving in Oklahoma City’s professional community, embracing Tulsa’s cultural sophistication, or enjoying life in Edmond or Norman, our Matchmakers use local expertise to connect you with partners who align with your values and goals.

We go beyond surface-level compatibility — focusing on shared ambitions, emotional connection, and long-term alignment. Some clients seek partners who share their professional drive or faith, while others value balance, kindness, and humor. Whatever matters most to you defines our approach.

Skip the uncertainty of dating apps. With LUMA, every introduction is purposeful — connecting you with exceptional singles across Oklahoma who, like you, are ready for something real.

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FAQs About Matchmaking in Oklahoma

How Our Matchmaking Works

Our matchmaking process begins with a comprehensive consultation to understand your preferences, values, and relationship goals. We then curate potential matches from our exclusive network and arrange introductions when there’s mutual interest, guiding you through each step of the way.

LUMA stands out with our 89% success rate, a focus on high-caliber professionals, a personalized approach, and an extensive network throughout OK. Our matchmakers have over 250 years of combined experience in matching successful singles.

While each client’s journey is unique, most clients meet compatible matches within the first 3 months. The entire process, from initial consultation to finding a committed relationship, typically ranges from 6-12 months depending on what you’re looking for.

Yes, we offer matchmaking across Oklahoma, with a strong presence in major metropolitan areas. Our reach spans from coast to coast, so we can find great matches no matter where you live in OK.

Most of our clients are 30-65 years old. We focus on matching working professionals who have stable careers and are ready for meaningful relationships with like-minded people.

Proven Success To Get Better Dates
“He’s a great guy. I trust you know what you’re doing. Thank you for everything.”Shannon Beador, Real Housewives of Orange County
“He’s a great guy. I trust you know what you’re doing. Thank you for everything.”
"I would 100% Recommend LUMA"
There’s nothing better than finding your best friend, the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.Michael and Michelle, Engaged
There’s nothing better than finding your best friend, the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.

Take the First Step Toward Love in OK

Take the first step in finding your most ideal partner by completing the form below. After completing the form, you’ll receive an email confirming that you signed up for our dating service. Then, you can schedule the ideal time to chat with one of our accredited matchmakers.

Your Oklahoma Matchmaking Team

LUMA’s Matchmakers have a deep understanding of OK’s dating scene. Our experts provide personalized support to help you find the relationship you’ve been searching for. Phone: (844) 822-5862

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Ready to start your Oklahoma matchmaking journey? Your Matchmaker is here to help with every step of the application.
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