Virginia's TOP MATCHMAKER SERVICE

Dating in Virginia balances tradition and modernity — where ambition meets authenticity and connection feels effortless. From the professional circles of McLean and the creative pulse of Richmond to the coastal charm of Norfolk, singles here are looking for relationships that feel genuine, grounded, and lasting. At LUMA, we take a personal, intentional approach to matchmaking, introducing professionals and executives to partners who align with their values, lifestyle, and vision for love.

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What Sets LUMA's Matchmaking Apart

Virginia’s dating culture is as complex as the state itself — refined, dynamic, and deeply rooted in community. Whether you’re navigating McLean’s fast-paced professional scene or enjoying the relaxed pace of Roanoke, finding love here means finding balance. With more than 15 years of International Matchmaking expertise and an 89% success rate, LUMA’s Matchmakers bring local understanding and intuition to every introduction, making the search for love as intentional as it is rewarding.

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Quality Matches with an 89% Success Rate

Our Matchmakers curate introductions that set the stage for lasting connection. Your first date might include dinner at Lemaire inside Richmond’s Jefferson Hotel, a waterfront stroll along Norfolk’s Town Point Park, or cocktails at Byrd & Baldwin’s Steakhouse. Each experience is thoughtfully selected to reflect your lifestyle and create an environment where chemistry unfolds naturally.

LUMA thoughtfully designs every introduction, focusing on quality to ensure matches align with your values and aspirations.

Prescreened Matches (~50 Interviews per Client!)

Our process is deliberate, thorough, and deeply personal. Each client benefits from around 50 in-depth interviews conducted by their matchmaker, allowing us to identify truly compatible singles who share your goals and values. By the time your first introduction takes place, we’ve already arranged every detail — from scheduling to venue — so you can focus entirely on the connection.

250+ Years of Combined Experience

With over 250 years of combined experience, LUMA’s Matchmakers bring expertise and dedication to every match. Your Virginia Matchmaker understands the dating nuances across the state, from the professional energy of Northern Virginia and McLean to the cultural sophistication of Richmond and the coastal elegance of Norfolk. Each introduction is guided by intuition, experience, and care, ensuring that every match feels authentic and aligned.

Our Virginia Matchmaking Process

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Intake

Your journey begins with a one-on-one consultation to understand your values, goals, and past experiences.

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SEARCH & SCREENING

Face-to-face interviews with your Matchmaker ensure they carefully select each match through a comprehensive evaluation process.

3

DATE COACHING

Receive personalized tips for making a great impression, with advice tailored to your dating goals and preferences.

4

SELECTION

Your Matchmaker will conduct about 40 interviews per client to narrow it down to the one who appears to be best suited for you, then we present you with your match’s profile.

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DATE PLANNING

Your Matchmaker arranges introductions in Virginia’s most memorable settings — from fine dining at Heirloom to an elegant evening at The Boathouse at Rocketts Landing, or wine tasting at Chateau Morrisette. Each venue is chosen to create an inviting atmosphere where conversation flows and connection feels effortless.

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FEEDBACK & EVALUTION

Post-date feedback helps refine your matches and ensures your experience aligns with your vision for a lasting relationship.

World Class Matchmaking Services Nationwide

LUMA is an elite Virginia Dating Service designed for professionals, executives, and high-net-worth individuals seeking meaningful, lasting relationships. Our high-touch approach prioritizes discretion, compatibility, and depth, ensuring every introduction feels thoughtful, aligned, and built to last.

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Over 25 years of Experience Matching High-end Singles

April Davis discovered her gift for matchmaking at sixteen, when she introduced two people who went on to marry — a moment that sparked her lifelong passion for helping others find love.

That passion became LUMA, a nationally recognized matchmaking firm built on empathy, experience, and human connection. With a team bringing over 250 years of combined expertise, LUMA takes a personalized approach, prioritizing real understanding over algorithms or data points.

Founded to serve busy professionals, executives, and high-net-worth singles, LUMA offers a discreet, high-touch alternative to modern dating. Our Virginia Matchmakers work with accomplished individuals across McLean, Richmond, Norfolk, and beyond, helping them meet partners who share their values, goals, and vision for the future.

If you’re ready to move beyond dating apps and meet someone who truly complements your life, we can help.

April Davis
Founder & President

Premium Matchmaking
Services in VA

At LUMA, we help successful singles across Virginia find love that feels intentional, authentic, and lasting. Whether you’re thriving in McLean’s professional scene, enjoying Norfolk’s coastal charm, or drawn to Richmond’s cultural vibrancy, our Matchmakers use local expertise to introduce you to partners who genuinely fit your lifestyle.

We go beyond appearances or convenience, focusing on shared values, lifestyle alignment, and long-term compatibility. Some clients seek partners who share their faith or family values, while others look for someone who mirrors their ambition and passion for life. Whatever matters most to you defines our process.

Skip the swiping and guesswork. With LUMA, every introduction is purposeful — connecting you with exceptional singles who are just as ready for something real as you are.

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FAQs About Matchmaking in Virginia

How Our Matchmaking Works

Our matchmaking process begins with a comprehensive consultation to understand your preferences, values, and relationship goals. We then curate potential matches from our exclusive network and arrange introductions when there’s mutual interest, guiding you through each step of the way.

LUMA stands out with our 89% success rate, a focus on high-caliber professionals, a personalized approach, and an extensive network throughout VA. Our matchmakers have over 250 years of combined experience in matching successful singles.

While each client’s journey is unique, most clients meet compatible matches within the first 3 months. The entire process, from initial consultation to finding a committed relationship, typically ranges from 6-12 months depending on what you’re looking for.

Yes, we offer matchmaking across Virginia, with a strong presence in major metropolitan areas. Our reach spans from coast to coast, so we can find great matches no matter where you live in VA.

Most of our clients are 30-65 years old. We focus on matching working professionals who have stable careers and are ready for meaningful relationships with like-minded people.

Proven Success To Get Better Dates
“He’s a great guy. I trust you know what you’re doing. Thank you for everything.”Shannon Beador, Real Housewives of Orange County
“He’s a great guy. I trust you know what you’re doing. Thank you for everything.”
"I would 100% Recommend LUMA"
There’s nothing better than finding your best friend, the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.Michael and Michelle, Engaged
There’s nothing better than finding your best friend, the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.

Take the First Step Toward Love in VA

Take the first step in finding your most ideal partner by completing the form below. After completing the form, you’ll receive an email confirming that you signed up for our dating service. Then, you can schedule the ideal time to chat with one of our accredited matchmakers.

Your Virginia Matchmaking Team

LUMA’s Matchmakers have a deep understanding of VA’s dating scene. Our experts provide personalized support to help you find the relationship you’ve been searching for. Phone: (844) 822-5862

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Ready to start your Virginia matchmaking journey? Your Matchmaker is here to help with every step of the application.
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